Keep in mind that the senior-living conversation is rarely a single conversation. More often, it\u2019s a series of progressive conversations that take place over time. If you don\u2019t get the accord you were seeking right away, that\u2019s OK. If you continue to make and repeat your points, your family eventually will hear you out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
As the conversation continues, there are things you can do to move the needle in a positive direction. For example:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Money can be one of the biggest concerns for family members who are skeptical of senior housing. Although they want to support you emotionally, they worry whether they will be able to support you financially. Meeting with a financial advisor can help you and your loved ones understand what resources you need, what resources you have and what might be required to fill the gap between them if there is one. Importantly, a financial advisor also can help you compare the costs of living in a senior living community to the costs of aging in place. When you consider the money you might spend over time on home maintenance, in-home healthcare and other expenses, the latter isn\u2019t always as affordable as it seems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Talking about a senior living community is one thing. Actually seeing a community is something else entirely. If you\u2019re still trying to decide on a community, invite your family members to join you on tours. And if you\u2019ve already chosen a community, schedule a time to visit it with them. Although they may still have reservations, family members often end up excited for you when they see firsthand what your life is going to look like and the ways in which it might improve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ultimately, where you want to live is your choice. Involving family members in the process, however, can make them feel important and engaged. That, in turn, can build buy-in. For instance, you could task adult children with helping you find potential communities to tour and explore. Or if you\u2019ve already chosen a community, you could ask loved ones to help you do research about the area around it, or help execute your move by hiring movers, organizing a garage sale or planning a housewarming party.<\/p>\n\n\n\n