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A Claiborne Senior Living Guide<\/div>\n
From preparing your heart to packing your home, this step-by-step guide to downsizing will make moving day a breeze.<\/div>\n
Start Read<\/div>\n

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Moving Forward<\/h2>\n
A senior living community is a new home,
but it\u2019s also a new beginning.<\/div>\n

\"Car<\/p>\n

\n

When you decide to move to a senior living community, you\u2019re not just deciding to move to a new home. It\u2019s so much more than that. You\u2019re also embracing the opportunity to move to a new phase in your life, the chance to try new things and meet new people, and the option to age independently, on your own terms. It\u2019s exciting and fulfilling. But it also can be scary and stressful. And frankly, a lot of work.<\/p>\n

Logistically, there are boxes to pack, memories to preserve, heirlooms to bequeath, clothes to donate, addresses to change, utilities to shut off, movers to hire and a million other loose ends that have to be tied. Emotionally, there are comfortable routines that will be interrupted, certainties that might become uncertain, favorite places and possessions that will be displaced, goodbyes that must be said and fears that must be faced. And if you\u2019re downsizing from a large and long-held family home? Both the logistics and the emotions of moving can be even more fraught.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\"Two<\/p>\n

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None of it is easy. When you consider the life that\u2019s waiting on the other side, however, it\u2019s all worth it. The question, then, isn\u2019t whether you should move to senior housing. If you\u2019re planning your move, you\u2019ve already done the work to cross that bridge. Instead, the question now is: How should you move to senior housing?<\/p>\n

Although it can\u2019t find someone to buy your old dining room table, move your bedroom set across town or hang a picture in your new place, this step-by-step guide can make your move just a little bit easier by helping you plan and prepare for the logistical and emotional challenges that await on your way to a new home\u2014and more importantly, a new life.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\"magnolia<\/p>\n

When you
\nconsider the
\nlife that\u2019s
\nwaiting on the
\nother side, it\u2019s
\nall worth it.<\/h2>\n

\"Man<\/p>\n

1. Unpack Your Feelings<\/h2>\n
Transitioning to a senior living community requires moving your stuff\u2014but also your state of mind.<\/div>\n
\n

Moving can be physically exhausting, but also emotionally enervating. Long before you pack your things, you should therefore unpack your feelings. Doing so will give you the fortitude, motivation and resolve you need in order to turn the page to a new chapter in your life.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re having a hard time coping with the prospect of change, or struggling with how to let go of people, places and possessions to which you\u2019re attached, try to re-focus your attention from what you\u2019re losing to what you\u2019re gaining. For example, make a list of all the things you\u2019re looking forward to in your new home. No matter what kind of retirement community you\u2019re moving to\u2014a community that offers independent living, assisted living, memory care or skilled nursing\u2014there are reasons that you decided to move there in the first place.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Try to re-focus
\nyour attention
\nfrom what
\nyou\u2019re losing
\nto what you\u2019re
\ngaining.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\"Women<\/p>\n

\n

Perhaps you\u2019ll be closer to your grandchildren. Maybe you\u2019re excited about warmer weather, making new friends or trying new activities. It could be that you\u2019re looking forward to having some extra help with activities that have become difficult, or that you\u2019ll feel more comfortable in a home that\u2019s safer for you. Whatever your motivations for moving, writing them down and keeping them in view during the moving process will help you maintain the positive, optimistic attitude you need in order to get through your transition successfully.<\/p>\n

It also can be helpful to honor the life you\u2019ve enjoyed in your current home. Hosting a going-away party with friends and family to share photos and memories can be a fulfilling and cathartic way to do so. Or consider inviting those same people to a housewarming party in your new home if it\u2019s close by; knowing that your loved ones will still be in your life once you\u2019ve moved can be a source of great comfort, and having a party on the calendar in advance of your move will give you something to look forward to at the end of a long process.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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It also can be helpful to honor the life you\u2019ve enjoyed in your current home.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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If you\u2019re still struggling to cope with your transition, a counselor or therapist might be able to help. Geriatric counselors who specialize in senior care can be especially helpful because they\u2019re familiar with senior living communities and are well versed in the concerns that seniors have when they\u2019re downsizing and moving to a new home. They can be an outlet for discussing things that you\u2019re excited about and things you\u2019re nervous about, and can offer useful strategies for coping with move-related guilt, regret, fear and anxiety, all of which are completely normal and usually a temporary side effect of change.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\"Man<\/p>\n

2. Sell Your Home, Not Your Memories<\/h2>\n
Listing your home doesn’t have to mean forgetting it.<\/div>\n
\n

Of course, moving to a new home usually requires selling your old one. This is especially true for seniors who are moving to a senior living community, many of whom rely on real estate proceeds to finance the cost of living in a retirement community.<\/p>\n

Emotionally and financially speaking, it\u2019s in your best interest to sell your home as quickly as possible. If it\u2019s allowed to sit on the market for too long, the listing will become stale, which ultimately will affect its sale price. Plus, a drawn-out sale will exacerbate any move-related anxiety that you\u2019re already feeling.<\/p>\n

To ensure your home sells as quickly as possible, for as much as possible, keep in mind the following advice:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Hire an agent who specializes in seniors.<\/span><\/h4>\n

Although you\u2019ll have to pay a commission, a real estate agent typically is worth the money they charge because they have the knowledge, the network and the experience to successfully market your home, show it, negotiate with interested buyers and ultimately execute the transaction.<\/p>\n

Agents who specialize in working with seniors are especially helpful because they understand the emotional aspects of selling a long-held family home; what financing options seniors have available to them; and the health, social and financial goals and constraints that are common to older adult clients. Plus, they\u2019re educated about current scams targeting seniors, and how to protect their vulnerable clients from falling prey to them.<\/p>\n

Although many agents might have experience working with senior clients, those who truly specialize in your cohort will typically have a Senior Real Estate Specialist (SRES) or Certified Senior Advisor (CSA) certification.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

\n

Prepare your home for sale.<\/span><\/h4>\n

Although your home is extremely personal, you should de-personalize it in order to appeal to buyers, who must be able to envision their family in the home instead of yours. That means removing personal photos and mementos, de-cluttering counters and surfaces, and moving or staging furniture in ways that might not work for your lifestyle but will emphasize for buyers the home\u2019s best features and potential functionality. Your real estate agent can help and may suggest hiring a professional stager if reinforcements are necessary.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Be practical about pricing.<\/span><\/h4>\n

Your real estate agent will conduct a comprehensive and competitive market analysis in order to recommend a listing price for your home that\u2019s based on its location, age, condition and other factors. The price might be more or less than you\u2019d hoped for. While it\u2019s important to protect your investment and maximize your return from it, be willing to look at the data and accept the reality of your local market. To the extent that you can, treating the sale as a financial instead of emotional transaction will allow you to get a good price in a short time frame so you can begin life in your new home soon and on the best possible footing.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\"Couple<\/p>\n

\n

If you find yourself feeling sentimental, keep in mind that selling your home doesn\u2019t mean you have to erase it from your memory. You can move out and move on while still treasuring the life you had there. There are many ways to preserve and honor your memories in a home that you\u2019re selling. If there\u2019s a piece of the home that means something to you\u2014for example, a door where you measured and marked your children\u2019s height as they grew \u2014you may be able to remove it and take it with you or pass it on to a family member. Or you could hire a professional photographer to photograph the home and make a framed print of it. Be creative and remember that you don\u2019t have to live in the house in order to love the life that it gave you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\"Moving<\/p>\n

3. Downsize Your Possessions, Upsize Your Potential<\/h2>\n
A smaller home can open the door to a bigger life.<\/div>\n
\n

Although some retirement communities offer large, spacious homes in which to enjoy independent living, it\u2019s often the case that older adults who move to a senior living community do so because they want to live a simpler life in a smaller, more manageable space. If you\u2019re one of them, moving likely will require you to pare down your possessions.<\/p>\n

Doing so isn\u2019t easy\u2014especially if you\u2019ve spent a lifetime accumulating and collecting art, books, clothing, jewelry, furniture, trinkets and countless other objects of functional and sentimental import. What can be extremely difficult, however, is also extremely important. Before you move into a new home, you have to make room physically and emotionally for the new life you want to live. When you do, you\u2019ll likely feel freer, lighter and nimbler than you have in years, having shed pounds of literal and figurative weight that you were carrying in the form of your stuff.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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You\u2019ll likely feel freer, lighter and nimbler than you have in years, having shed pounds of literal and figurative weight that you were carrying in the form of your stuff.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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But where to start? The following tips will help you simplify and streamline in no time at all.<\/p>\n

Schedule \u201cdownsizing days.\u201d<\/h4>\n

If you have a lot of downsizing to do, you need dedicated time for weeding through your things and sorting them. Scheduling that time in a structured manner\u2014put a date on your calendar to sort through the kitchen, for example, and another date to sort through the basement\u2014makes it easier to set tangible goals, and to hold yourself accountable for meeting them.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Do the math.<\/h4>\n

\u201cDownsizing\u201d is a vague concept. Bring some specificity to the situation by measuring your new home, or requesting a floor plan from the senior living community to which you\u2019re moving. When you know square footage, number of closets and other important information, you can calibrate and calculate exactly how much downsizing you need to do.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\"Boxes<\/p>\n

\n

Divide in order to conquer.<\/h4>\n

Dividing your possessions into different sorting piles\u2014a pile to keep, a pile to sell, a pile to donate and a pile to throw away\u2014is a favorite downsizing strategy that professional organizers use with their clients. You can physically sort smaller items into piles, or you can use colored stickers to mark items of all sizes so that professional movers can move them for you later. Keep in mind that there are myriad options for the items you want to sell and donate, including retail charities like Goodwill and Salvation Army, nonprofits that provide low-income families with used clothing and furniture, websites like eBay, social networks like Facebook Marketplace, garage sales, estate sales and even auction houses, if you own valuable collectibles or antiques.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Assess the amenities.<\/h4>\n

Keep in mind where you\u2019re going and what
\nservices and amenities will be available to you. If there\u2019s a fitness
\ncenter in your new senior living community, for example, you can
\nprobably sell any home exercise equipment you might have. If there are
\nhousekeeping services, you can toss your cleaning supplies. And if you
\nplan to eat all your meals in a community dining room or restaurant,
\nthen you may not need to bring all of your kitchen items with you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Keep in mind where you\u2019re going and what services and amenities will be available to you.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Get help.<\/h4>\n

Going through your things alone can be overwhelming
\nand exhausting. Consider asking friends and family members
\nfor their assistance. This may be not only helpful\u2014more hands
\nmakes for faster work\u2014but also comforting in case you need
\nemotional support to let go of certain items. Hired help also
\ncan be useful. A professional organizer, for example, can help
\nyou set priorities and offer useful strategies for accomplishing
\nbig jobs. There also are professional senior relocation services
\nthat specialize in helping older adults downsize their homes.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Hand down treasured items early.<\/h4>\n

If you have treasured items
\nor family heirlooms that you plan to leave to your adult children
\nor other relatives when you die, consider bequeathing them now
\ninstead. Doing so not only will free up space in your new home,
\nbut also will allow you to pass down something important to you
\nwhile you\u2019re still around to experience the joy that it creates.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

\"Man<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

4. Make Moving Day Manageable<\/h2>\n
Thinking ahead will make moving day easier\u2013and the days after more enjoyable.<\/div>\n
\n

No matter how much you plan and prepare, there\u2019s just no getting around
\nit: Moving day will be physically taxing and emotionally trying. But
\nit also will be exceedingly exciting and gratifying. The more you can
\ndo ahead of time to mitigate the potential headaches, the more you\u2019ll
\nbe able to savor the certain rewards. With that in mind, here are a few
\nthings you can do to make moving day go just a little bit smoother:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Start early.<\/h4>\n

The earlier you start planning your move\u2014and
\npacking your boxes\u2014the better. Experts say two months
\nprior to your anticipated move date is a good time to start
\nplanning. This should include getting estimates from moving
\ncompanies and booking one of them, as the best movers
\noften fill their slots weeks and even months in advance.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Get help.<\/h4>\n

Speaking of moving companies, you should hire one if
\nyou can afford it. Professional help will make things go more quickly
\nand more smoothly. That said, it\u2019s also good to have friends and
\nfamily present to help, if possible. For example, consider appointing
\nan adult child to the informal position of \u201cmoving day supervisor.\u201d
\nThey can ease your burden by directing the movers and answering
\nquestions. Meanwhile, you can assign other helpers to various
\nrooms of the house to do last-minute packing and cleaning.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\"Man<\/p>\n

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Research move-in policies.<\/h4>\n

Your new senior living community
\nmay have special move-in policies of which you need to be aware
\non moving day. For example, where should you park your moving
\ntruck? Do you need a special permit? Is there a move-in fee? If
\nyou\u2019re moving into an apartment or condominium in a multi-unit
\nbuilding, do you need to reserve a freight elevator? Finding all of
\nthis out ahead of time will ensure you don\u2019t run into unwelcome
\nsurprises when you arrive to move into your new home.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Pack an overnight bag and a \u201cfirst box.\u201d<\/h4>\n

Anyone who\u2019s moved before knows what it\u2019s like to pack something you need and not know where to find it. Or worse yet, to know exactly where it is and be unable to reach it\u2014because that place is in a box on a truck that\u2019s still in transit. To prevent that common mistake from happening, pack an overnight bag to keep with you that includes essentials like a change of clothes, underwear, pajamas, an extra pair of shoes, medication and toiletries. Likewise, it\u2019s a good idea to pack and label a \u201cfirst box\u201d that you will unpack before anything else in your new home. Inside should be things you need to make the first night and the first morning in your new home comfortable\u2014for example, a nightlight, alarm clock, toilet paper, coffee maker and your favorite mug, etc.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Plan snacks and seating ahead of time.<\/h4>\n

If there\u2019s anything
\nyou\u2019ll need to conserve on moving day, it will be your energy.
\nThat means making time to eat and rest, even in the midst of your
\nmove\u2019s busiest moments. But what happens when the fridge and
\ncabinets have been emptied, and all the furniture has been loaded
\nonto the truck? Think ahead to ensure you have an easy meal
\nand snacks on hand, the means to eat them (e.g., paper plates,
\nnapkins, plastic cutlery) and somewhere other than the floor to
\nsit when you need to take a break, like a folding chair or stool.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Think ahead to ensure you have an easy meal and snacks on hand, the means to eat them, and somewhere other than the floor to sit when you need to take a break, like a folding chair or stool.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\n

Make arrangements for pets.<\/h4>\n

If you have a pet that you\u2019ll be bringing
\nwith you to your new home, be sure to think in advance about how
\nyou\u2019ll transport them in a way that\u2019s safe and comfortable. You might
\nneed to invest in a new pet carrier, for example, or ask your vet about
\nanti-anxiety measures. It\u2019s also a good idea to pack a special box that
\nyou keep with you that contains their pet food, medicine and any
\nfavorite toys that will help them adjust to their new home. Finally,
\nconsider a pet relocation service, which for a fee will pick your pet
\nup and transport them safely to your new home so you don\u2019t have
\nto keep an eye on them while you\u2019re busy supervising the move.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Make time to say goodbye.<\/h4>\n

Don\u2019t underestimate how emotional
\nmoving day might be. Before you load the final box and lock the
\nfront door, take a minute to appreciate your home and reflect on all
\nthe good memories you made there. It will be bittersweet, but you\u2019ll
\nbe glad you gave yourself a moment of closure. Doing so will allow
\nyou to fully embrace your exciting new life in your new home.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\"Man<\/p>\n

5. Make Yourself at Home<\/h2>\n
To feel settled, focus on personalizing your space
and meeting new people.<\/div>\n
\n

Finally, the move is over. Now what? Although you probably won\u2019t feel settled right away, rest assured: What feels new and foreign now eventually will feel as comfortable and familiar as a favorite chair. It just takes time.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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What feels new and foreign now eventually will feel as comfortable and familiar as a favorite chair \u2026 it just takes time.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Still, there are things you can do to speed the process along and make your new space feel like home. Here are a few of them:<\/p>\n

Unpack photos first.<\/h4>\n

If home is where the heart is, then the
\nfastest way to make a home is to fill it with photographs of the
\npeople, places and memories that make your heart feel full.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Embrace the familiar.<\/h4>\n

A simple way to make a new space yours
\nis to infuse it with things that remind you of your previous home.
\nThis might include not only favorite possessions\u2014a piece of art
\nor furniture from your old home, for example\u2014but also favorite
\nsights, sounds and scents. If you miss the rose bushes from the
\nyard at your previous home, for example, buy some fresh roses and
\nsome rose-scented candles to burn. Or perhaps you used to live in
\nthe city and your new home is in a quiet suburb; buying a sound
\nmachine that plays traffic noises might be surprisingly soothing.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Let there be light.<\/h4>\n

You might experience moments of sadness
\nor loneliness in your new home while you\u2019re still adjusting to it.
\nOn days like that, make sure you open the blinds and turn on all
\nyour lamps. Making your home bright and light instead of dark
\nand dreary can do wonders for your mood and your outlook.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\"close<\/p>\n

\n

Invest in houseplants.<\/h4>\n

You\u2019ll meet new neighbors and make new
\nfriends, but that might take time. Meanwhile, houseplants can
\nmake good company. Not only do they provide fresh air, but they
\nalso will give you something to do and something to take care of.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Find your new favorite places.<\/h4>\n

Where did you spend most of your
\ntime before you moved? It\u2019s important\u2014and fun\u2014to find equivalent
\nplaces to frequent in your new community. If you spent a lot of
\ntime at church, for example, make it your mission to find a new
\ncongregation. If you had coffee every morning at a local restaurant,
\nfind a new favorite booth in a new favorite restaurant where you
\ncan spend your mornings getting caffeinated. And if you spent the
\nfirst Tuesday of every month at the beauty shop, make it a priority
\nto find a new place where you can get your hair and nails done.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

More than
\nanything else,
\nit\u2019s the people
\nyou meet who
\nwill make your
\nnew place feel
\nlike home.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\n

Join a club or social group.<\/h4>\n

More than anything else, it\u2019s the
\npeople you meet who will make your new place feel like home. It\u2019s
\ntherefore important to seek out social groups and activities of which
\nyou can be a part. Fortunately, most senior living communities have
\nplenty of them to offer. It could be a Bible study or book club, bridge
\ngroup or bowling team. Find out what your community offers that
\ninterests you, then ask how you can get involved. Although being
\nthe new person can be intimidating, it\u2019s important to get out of your
\ncomfort zone. New experiences and new relationships await.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Develop a routine.<\/h4>\n

A routine can give you a sense of normalcy
\nwhile also helping you meet new people. Starting every morning
\nwith a walk around your new community, for example, will give
\nstructure to your day and help you meet your neighbors. If walking
\nisn\u2019t your thing, you could have dinner in the dining hall at the same
\ntime every evening, or attend the same yoga class every Wednesday
\nafternoon. It could be anything. The key is to develop a routine
\nthat helps you establish a \u201cnew normal\u201d in your new home.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\"senior<\/p>\n

New Home, New You<\/h2>\n
The best part about moving is the new life that’s waiting on the other side of it.<\/div>\n
\n

No matter your age or life stage, moving can be challenging physically, emotionally and socially. After all, it\u2019s full of garbage bags and goodbyes. But the chaos and uncertainty that so often accompany a big move are temporary. What\u2019s everlasting are the new opportunities it creates, the new relationships it facilitates and the new lifestyle it affords.<\/p>\n

Wherever you are in the moving process\u2014if you\u2019re years away from moving to a senior living community or days\u2014it\u2019s important to keep those things in mind. The boxes eventually will be gone, and so will the anxiety. In their place will be a new home in which to make new memories. Although they can never replace your past, they promise at every opportunity to enrich your future. All you have to do is let them.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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The boxes eventually will be gone, and so will the anxiety. In their place will be a new home in which to make new memories.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Navigate<\/h2>\n
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